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What to do if you are the non-custodial parent

If you are going through a divorce in Illinois, you may have already been faced with some of the challenges of separating from your ex-spouse. One of the new changes you may be coping with could be the separation from your children if you have been declared as the non-custodial parent. At Essig Law Office, we are aware of the challenges that parents face when arranging child custody agreements during a divorce. 

When you are the custodial parent, raising your children may seem relatively unchanged. However, if you are the non-custodial parent, it can be difficult to overcome emotional barriers and come to terms with an effective parenting method when you are regularly separated from your children. According to familyeducation.com, some of the responsibilities you have as the non-custodial parent include the following:

  • Providing child care when your ex has some place to be.
  • Sharing the disciplinary portion of parenting, and establishing "ground rules" that both you and your ex will try to maintain.
  • Maintaining an environment that is positive and comfortable, and avoid any negative discussion about your divorce or your ex.
  • Avoid charming your children with excessive gifts and awards. Rather, focus your time on doing things that will create positive memories and strong relationships. 

When you are adjusting to life as a parent who is unable to see your children as frequently as you have been able to in the past, following these suggestions can enable you to parent meaningfully despite the distance. For more information about divorce, visit our web page.  

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