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Is my relationship headed for divorce?

After several years of marriage and the birth of one or several kids, you may feel like your relationship is progressing along nicely. There may be times where you feel like your spouse could become more involved with your marriage and help around the home more, but overall you have no complaints. Many people in Illinois who end up getting divorced from their partners were under the impression that their marriages were fine. They were blindsided to learn that their relationships were not as happy and healthy as they thought. 

You do not want to find yourself in their shoes one day. Regardless of how everything seems now, you should take time periodically to evaluate your relationship. If you notice any of the following signs, divorce may be a possibility for you to prepare for. 

The only participant in conversations and arguments 

Your relationship is comprised of two different people who may or may not have similar habits, personalities and expectations. It is normal for people to change and grow apart the longer they are together. If you notice as time progresses that the conversations you have with your partner are becoming more one-sided or that they no longer put any effort into discussing things, resolving conflicts and keeping your relationship healthy, you should find out why. 

On constant defense mode 

If it seems like your spouse always has something negative to say about and to you, you may feel as if you are always in defense mode. There is nothing wrong with you defending yourself, but you should try to understand what your spouse is really saying and feeling. The constant criticism and negativity could be a sign that your spouse no longer respects you, states Reader’s Digest. People who spend most of their time finding reasons to be upset at their partners often use them as scapegoats. 

These are not the only signs that indicate that separation is a possibility. If you find yourself questioning your relationship, talk to your partner and tell them how you feel and why. You should also consider counseling to help mend your relationship if you think it is savable.

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